Have you ever tried to do something specific, but then you fail because you feel that you are not good enough?
Then you stand on the sideline, and watch, while others do exactly what you wanted to do without squinting.
Why do some of us have so little faith or confidence in ourselves? What exactly are we scared of?
Are we scared of ridiculing ourselves, or are we scared what others might think of us?
What a ridiculous thought is this?
We are all human and on the same level. Some people might put themselves on pedestals to give the illusion that they are superior to others, but then there are some of us who place others on a pedestal because WE BELIEVE that they are better than us.
Once you get past the fear and you actually realize that WE ARE ALL THE SAME and equal, then you will start building up confidence to try new things.
Don't worry, this is actual human nature and it is very natural for us to compare ourselves to others all the time. BUT that is all it is.
We all have our doubts and fears but don't let this put a damper on your life. You are only here for a short while, and if you hide yourself in your room most of the time, then you will not have the opportunity to experience new things or to grow as a person.
Nobody says that you have to get out to go and climb Mount Everest. One little step at a time. Just get out there and try something new. Once you see that it is not so bad and there are actually people motivating you to do something new, you might want to try something else in a few days or weeks.
Some people might even laugh at you if you are not successful but that doesn't matter. Laugh with them.
Don't be so touchy. Rome wasn't built in one day.
Life is short. You don't know what tomorrow brings. What legacy will you leave behind?