Lawrence: Well, what about you now? What would you do?
Peter Gibbons: Besides two chicks at the same time?
Lawrence: Well, yeah.
Peter Gibbons: Nothing.
Lawrence: Nothing, huh?
Peter Gibbons: I would relax... I would sit on my ass all day... I would do nothing.
Lawrence: Well, you don't need a million dollars to do nothing, man. Take a look at my cousin: he's broke, don't do shit.
Well, I wasn’t about to just mooch off someone else as human beings never truly appreciate anything given to them on a constant basis that they didn’t earn. It’s just part of our nature. I had to earn it while balancing it off somewhat with my desire to do “nothing.”
Now I don’t mean “nothing” in the sense of just sitting on my ass all day, but that it is completely up to me to decide what I want to do each and every day. So I could relax one day and work hard on a project the next. But since it is all for me, I can do it at my leisure. That is the goal; to have enough money coming in that I no longer have to work. To me, that is my freedom.
Since young me had this idea locked away in my brain since a young age, I had already started on my career that offered such a treat at the end – a pension. In addition to that, I would live simply and invest the difference. The future was bright and the goal in place.
I started seeing my friends or roommates spending habits and some brushed off on me. Then I got married to a woman who spent every dime I earned. I knew this path led to ruin, but I didn’t know how to stop. I was being pushed by everything around me.
But I remembered that these were all my decisions coming home to roost. I was always in control of it all, just as you are.
There is an old saying that the self-help gurus love to tell people. “We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.”
Seeing as my wife was not going to change, we went through the pain of a divorce. I started to find my way again. I started making progress towards my end goal. Luckily my initial efforts to my goal were still going, and I could continue to plant new seeds for the future.
Another quote from Office Space:
I don't know, maybe it was just shock and it's wearing off now, but when I saw that fat man keel over and die - Michael, we don't have a lot of time on this earth! We weren't meant to spend it this way. Human beings were not meant to sit in little cubicles staring at computer screens all day, filling out useless forms and listening to eight different bosses drone on about mission statements.
Of course, I’m sure the top reason is money. For most of us, I’m sure that money is the only reason they show up each day. There are two types of people like this, the ones that have to do it and the ones that do it to the detriment of the rest of their lives. The first group dreads Mondays and the rest of the workweek, lusting for the always too short weekends – where they end up just dreading Monday again. The latter work extreme hours and are usually the most stressed. They probable have increased their cost of living to match any money coming in. Sky high credit card bills, new cars, fancy house – all because “they deserve it” for working such long hours. Funny, they are at work for more hours than they are at that fancy house. These people are owned by their things.
It's called 'work' not 'happy happy fun times' for a reason. It is hard to fathom to me, but some people actually ENJOY their job. Not just a day here or there, but all or nearly all the time! They enjoy getting up early in the morning and navigating with the thousands of other commuters to the workplace. It is like some alien concept. I don’t know if they have been brainwashed or just have some easy, climate controlled job. But more power to them.
I get this from my stay at home wife as she watches our child. She tells me she misses and wants to talk to other adults. I am not a very social person, and am perfectly happy staying in all weekend so I don’t much understand it. Luckily she has found a few friends and joined a few groups of mothers that seems to work in getting her need of socialization. As for the rest of us, work doesn’t have to be the place to get our friends from. I find that anyone from work that I hang out with out of a work setting just wants to talk about work, and that is something I try to avoid at all costs. Try to join a meetup group to find people with common interests.
Society expects everyone to work until they are in their late 60’s. I remember I was at a BBQ that was hosted by a new friend of my wife and I didn’t know anyone there. Well, it was mainly older people and the normal chitchat that comes from these situations, namely “What do you do?” I told them and added, “but I am going to retire in a few years.” Well, that brought on the next question “What are you going to do then?” To which I replied “Nothing. Whatever I want to do each day.” They shot back with “You need to do something, you are too young.”
Shoot, I thought the whole point was to retire. I thought that was the whole point of working. Why work 40+ years when you can do it in 20ish years or less if you focus on it? Heck I heard a story of a guy that retired forever in about seven working a job. Merchant marine, basically just worked those seven years straight living on ships, investing pretty much every penny. Hit his goal and never has to work again.
The times have changed and you are just a number to any company. They will drop you the moment it no longer suits them. You might think being a top performer makes you safe, maybe it does - maybe not. Maybe someone will see you as a threat to their position and you will find yourself being let go. It happens.
Even if you love your job, things have a habit of changing on you. I would say at some point, even in a job you once loved, it starts to become less and less of a thrill. If you have built an expensive lifestyle that requires the constant input from your job, you have only built up a prison around you. You will have no choice but to follow the daily schedule as directed by your masters.
So whether you don’t like working or love it, living simply and having a large amount of money saved and invested popping off more cash every month or so is a great plan. It is a pretty good feeling to know you have enough money and could live 4 years without a job. Eventually the pile-o-cash grows so much that you never have to touch the main pile, you are free from work.
