Hello my Steemit friends. This is just a short post about sarcasm. But what is the meaning of this word? Below are some definitions.
A sharp and often satirical or ironic utterance designed to cut or give pain. (Merriam-Webster)
The use of remarks that clearly mean the opposite of what they say, made in order to hurt. (Cambridge English Dictionary)
A sharp, bitter, or cutting expression or remark; a bitter gibe or taunt. (Wikipedia)
There are some people who are really adept with this and although they may sound funny at the time the sarcasm is spoken, it makes one pause and think again about the meaning of what was just said. Here's an example that I really like:
This initially made me smile. I find it humorous and quite witty. However, upon further thinking, I realize this is a very subtle and probably(?) less offensive way of saying to someone that he is wrong. Some people just hate to be told that they are wrong in their face. I think a lot of relationships have gone sour because of the direct and, I would say, brutal manner by which somebody tells off a partner or friend or associate that he is wrong. Of course there's no guarantee that once the meaning of the sarcasm is realized the recipient party would not be offended. But still, it's more non-confrontational IMHO.
Or when you find someone insufferable, overbearing and full of himself, instead of saying "Go away" or "You're not welcome here" or "I really hate your guts" try this for size:
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Or when you have a serious misunderstanding or falling out with someone you thought was your BFF or bossom buddy say this instead of "Traitor" or "Ingrate" or "I thought you were my friend":
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Sometimes an indirect but still effective way to communicate your feelings is through sarcasm. I believe this can lighten a very intense and heated situation and who knows? It can even cause two warring parties to break down in laughter and thereby diffuse a difficult position. Read up on some of the best quotes here.
Have a great weekend everyone and I do hope you had fun reading this short post.