Body language is something we should very sensitive to, if only we can be very sensitive to these, there wont be room for heart break because this will help you constantly find your place in your partners life and you wont cry when things go side ways because you must have saw it coming.
Many of us keep saying, "i dont want to loose my relationship, we have been together foe many years, i cant afford to loose him, am really in love with him/her". All we want is not loosing him or her, thereby forgetting and neglecting our own happiness. Dont be so conscious of the relationship and forget about what the end result might be.
One person dont keep a relationship, the both parties have their role to play and whoever neglect his or her responsibility will not be responsible.
When you forget whom you are, you'll have difficulties in your relationship. You will struggle to keep what is not meant to be,when you try to keep someone that doesn't value your love you will keep loosing value till you'll be useless in their presence.
Learn to study body languages, it most time speaks what the mouth will not say, with proper understanding of this, no one will shatter your heart without you knowing first.
Always remember that communication is a basic key in relationship and attention is the door. Every sign you see in the relationship will manifest in marriage, if you dont like them dont walk to the alter with him or her. Watch how youre been treated during the relationship before you say i do. Dont be carried away by words, they dont justify anything.
Love with your heart but follow your brain
