We often see people we do not like especially the way they behave.
We would complain that this guy at our office really needs to change his attitude and behaviour.
We may have spoken badly behind those people we hated but all these negative words and attitudes we have against them would not change them.
Most of them often see others being the problem rather than themselves.
When we want someone to change, we may need to show them how they should behave or react in different circumstances.
Actions can speak louder than words and we can cause changes in others when we demonstrate the right behaviours especially when difficult situations come.
We may need to change the way we see others before we can change others.
Simply saying our negative thoughts would only cause further frustrations without changes.
Listen to the song above and think about being the change factor.
I hope it makes sense to you.
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