We learn so much from our children, we do a lot of work so that they can play. It is great to share some of that frivolous energy and careless curiosity that they still have.
Hey everyone, hope your feeling today. Lets go for a stroll down memory lane again :)
We go through our lives gaining experiences, we gather knowledge around us, so that we can save energy by learning from the experiences of others.
We eagerly and reluctantly absorb their success stories and their tragedies, keeping and discarding the bits we like, the bits that feel right and sound right. We filter based upon what it is we want and don't want in our own lives.
As we build the nest of our minds with the twigs and shiny bits we pick up from other people we begin to make our own information filter. This new filter is designed to seek pieces that help us to Feel better, block out that which does not.
The Filter of our mind may make us feel better, but it does not help us to sense better. The short cuts, meanings and symbols of our language and our knowledge, are there to help us react appropriately. So that we do not need to think each situation through again and again. Instead we know that Red means stop and green Go.
This trigger will equate to this reaction so long as these conditions are also met. Memory operates as a programming language - IF, THEN, AND OR statements. These are conditions that we set our reactions to, so that we dont need to keep making choices.
Our response to a situation will DEPEND upon which memories we have charged with emotion. Our muscles fire on an electrical charge that is stored and transported via chemicals called electrolytes. (Something like that anyway) We shuffle these molecules around in our bodies to where they are most needed.
*Our primary survival instinct is to live in groups
Our next is to live
After this comes procreating, then food and shelter
Lastly entertainment.
*A person who’s sense of worthiness to be a part of a tribe, falls too low will either heal or take their own life. Conversely, the happiest people hardly think in terms of self so have few personal requirements that need to be met. Their happiness is not Dependant on so many conditions.
People love them, because they don't try to control, they move mostly from caring about others, and do not even have particularly rigid views on anything. This leaves them free to feel and enjoy what they are feeling, to be playful.
What do they feel? - connection.
What do they allow? - connection.
What is reality? - well it is not separation lol…
So did the one who suicided react to reality or the illusion of separation?
Was that illusion built by the filter of their belief - did these conditions govern their actions, that re-affirmed the assumptions from their stories?
We will resonate, we will give of emotion and receive emotion relative to the memories we embody.
Its a perfect feedback loop
Our beliefs may not be fair, but the environment of nature is consistent.
The only way to know connection is through relationship, and we can only be in relationship through our senses. Our minds can only be sensitive to reality when we relax our Conditioning, our filtering. The AND, THEN, IF and OR statements of our strategies to control the waves of emotion that upset us so much.
stored emotional charges - action potentials - potentials for action
They are anchored through the repetition of emotional intensity. The greater the emotion the less repetitions required. What is emotion again?
Emotion is an electro chemical event that alters our biology - this event moves through cells, tissues, organs, organisms and organisations or organisms. It is a biological language. Language that does not just transmit an idea it creates change, it reshapes its environment. It is an action. Like a wave in the ocean, emotions move through us constantly, we are both altered and altering each other with emotion
The way we emanate and the way we receive emotion is a function of our state of body/mind. A function of the stored charges that shape the way we think and move.
Our body language, our tone of voice, the words we use, and even the quality of our actions are all shaped and con-form to the beliefs we adopt.
The form our mind/bodies take will determine how we feel. If we are flexible in our mind/body there is little pain and much richness in the data. If we are stiff and have set many conditions - if our ability to soften and relax - release charge - depends on us controlling events. Pfffttt…. Well good luck with that.
If we can not relax, the world will keep crashing into our inflexible opinions - our minds will be full of ideas on how to regain control that we never had. We will miss out on the real data from our senses. The only signal we will still notice is pain, and it will grow louder and more intense to the degree that we remain tense.
Or we can choose relationship - where is that again?
Our psychobiology =8-P
