Hello friends, I hope you are very well and that you have had an excellent week and now a fabulous weekend. Today I want to talk about a topic that has been very much part of my life, and that now I am mastering little by little, I am working much harder on it and that is why I want to share my experience, I am not ashamed on the contrary, I know that many people go through similar situations and do not dare to tell it.
FEAR is an emotion that as we all know helps us to face certain situations, but also to avoid great opportunities, or simply contributes to distrust ourselves, to fill us with insecurities and paralyzes us in front of life.
Many times we are afraid to leave that bubble in which we were raised, particularly I was an only child until I was 10 years old and I always had a lot of protection, among other things, we know that our education and development has a great impact on our lives as adults, but the fact that for example, your family is a bad influence or there are criminals does not mean that you have to be one of them, there are always opportunities, we can always change the course of history.
I know of people who despite having everything against them since they were little, today are very successful and very intelligent people, who turned their lives around and decided to take the opportunities offered.
I have always had a very close relationship with fear, thinking if I can or not has always been there, and it turns out that most of the time I CAN, that means that our limitations are mental, even those with real limitations can achieve many things, so we must feed our mind in a healthy and positive way. It is not only our body or physical state that is also important, but to nourish ourselves from the inside out.
In life we will have many challenges, many strong situations to face, but if we submerge ourselves in fear we will never learn, we will never get ahead, we will never prove ourselves, because everything lies in us, it is not about being better than anyone or surpassing anyone, it is about BECOMING BETTER EVERY DAY AND PROVING THAT WE ARE CAPABLE OF FACING ANYTHING THAT IS PUT IN FRONT OF US. That is how we Venezuelans speak and many or most of us are like that.
Everything we are living proves it, we are capable of enduring many things as well as adapting to certain realities. After everything I have been through and where I have arrived I know that I am a strong and very capable person, although sometimes I did not believe it, it is surprising what thoughts do in our lives, if we do not learn to dominate them we will lose the battle.
If we work on what hurts us or what does not let us move forward, surely everything in our life will change radically. Long ago I was afraid of everything, a change was like a storm in my life, changes still make me a little anxious but as I say I am working on it, I know that changes are good but I have always been a person with everything under control, or at least what surrounds me hehehehe.... But I have learned in these months or since last year that WE CANNOT CONTROL EVERYTHING. We just have to LIVE!!!
That's my recommendation LIVE and work on you, on your growth and on your physical and mental well being, if you believe in yourself you can achieve everything you set your mind to.