Sometimes we have that attitude of indifference when we try to extend our care to our loved ones but they turn on not receiving that care of love, it really frustrating having that kind of experience.
I have a brother that whenever you give him advise he never take it he always feel that he is right and know it all, and the end of it is not what you want to know.
First time I gave him advice was when he is about getting married, I told him, you don't just get married that way you need to know what you are about to start is a life long commitment, he turned to me and said, what do you know about marriage? I just keep quiet and move on.
Time always tell, not more than a year divorce, as if that is not a enough, I told, but I talked to you about this relationship, each time you are trying to advise him he feels he knows it all, he will tell you, what do you know? So that also has made me to just keep quiet and watch him and see what will happen, but everytime he refused to receive advise he turned to heat his head on the wall.
Few days ago he went to the farm and he said he want to farm rice, he said that he not break the earth before putting the rice and I said to him you should til the ground first but he insisted, okay, I will watch as usual, after one week nothing germinated, I went through the farm I just keep quiet.
I have decided to keep quiet for sometime and just watched, each time he is trying he always fail, it's been a consign to me but I just have to mind my business, because it is frustrating when you are trying to see the progress of someone but he never want to progress because he never want to receive advised from anyone.
I have to behaves has if I don't care, I always mind my business so it won't cause me more pain, one thing with is that whenever I give you some words of advice and you refuse to listen, what I do is that I will turn my back on you, I don't care whatever you are doing, if you are progressing or not, I will live you to yourself so you can continue with your life.
I don't care, is part of my life, I always live my life as if no one exist, I don't mind what the next person is doing, so when I give you advice and you refuse to listen, what I do, is that I will live you and never advice you again, you won't want to see that from me because you will be like a fool around me.
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