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It one year now since the demise of my dad and it had never been easy having three older brothers who haven't been walking along It has been too painful, that one can't continue talking with his brother, everything just scattered, I don't know how to go about this matter, can't imagine seeing the family not being together because I know that it only when we are together that we can progress.
All this trouble has been caused by just one person, my immediate older brother is not happy with our firstborn of the house because he is not in good time with his wife, that is, the wife of my immediate older brother, and all this started immediately after the death of our dad, and the second thing why the both of them are not walking together is because that man is over forty-five years no wife and he can not maintain any relationship, because he lacks good character, every relationship he entered don't last due to his bad hot temper.
He is a very selfish person, he loves to receive from people but never wants to release his good to any, a person that never wants any person to correct him because he is never ready to be corrected, it has been a heartache to everyone in the family.
I don't want to have anything with him, but each time I tried separating myself from him because of his bad behavior, I rethink that this one is family and I value family, now I want to assist him but not knowing how to go about it.
Lately, I have been thinking that all this ill manner that he has been having is because of frustration of being single, now he is already approaching fifty and has no child, and this is a serious family crisis not knowing how to fix this problem.
My immediate older brother left the house because of their fight with each other, this issue has taken us to the police station because of their fight which has now affected two of us, four gentlemen, it has not been funny dealing with such kind of person, sometimes I usually ask myself if this man is mentally sound because sometimes he will be prayerful another time he will say he is tired with God let him try native doctor, I believe now you can imagine the kind of person I have been talking about.
Sometimes all these drive me crazy, I don't know what to do, and peace is lacking in the family that alone is affecting my life negatively can't just think straight anymore, and it affects my relationship with God if I should say will forget about him I don't know if it will be the right thing, just looking for possible ways to harmonize things in the family. Just trusting God for wisdom on how to settle all this crisis.
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