*The nature of human amazes me sometimes I wonder how we had survive this long. *
Many people always paint their ex - lover one bad color or the other, subconsciously trying to exonerate themselves from the blames of the failed relationships. But I like to think of it as " what if u were the evil she or he was saved from". Yes would anyone find it easy to express how they themselves contributed to the failing of d love story.
There are so many reasons as to why many people will gladly point out all the mistakes of ex- partners.
- Jealousy
- Fear of unknown
- Guilty conscience
- Initial value for that partner
- Hurting from heartbreak.
All this reasons and many more other reasons will be well elaborated in the cause of this topic which is going to be in series and I drop them every time.
However the main point of view that I would be hammering is the most important thing of how we need to value self-improvement, if both side of any relationship values this there might never be a need to split after all but even if the separation did come for some agreeable reasons, then there won't be much of any bad attitude or behaviour to be reported.
In essence, before you condemn ex - lover check first the reason you loved him/her in the first place and think of all the good memories created while you both lasted. Then you won't find it easy to speak bad of ur ex.
Guys I look forward to the next series of this topic and I wish u also find this interesting and join me as we reorientate or review our relationship mentality.