Hello guys, welcome to my blog.
I really love this week's topic, and I would like to share my experience with you based on this topic.
As a growing child,I have received a lot of advice from different people,both those who know me that does who don't. Some i listened to, and some I don't.
I don't listen to every advice because they might look good, but the end results could be a lifetime regrets.
I can remember a advice I got from my boss's wife then, she said;"favour, as you're trying to earn money at your tender age, use the money for yourself, and not your family, because they can betray you at anytime".
it's a good advice for some people. Think about it, if I use it for myself, some years to come, I may get rich and then be free with everyone again. it almost got to my head. What do you think, I sat down thinking.
i was really younger then and I have goals and dreams which my family are in the picture, and if I did what she said, it I will be as though am isolating myself from them.
But at some point I thought of the disadvantages and not the advantages alone. And it's has many more disadvantages to me. Think of it, it's a good one, but to me, I won't feel comfortable.
To me, the advice she gave to me is one that can sperate a person from his family and with time it develops into lifetime malice generation to generation.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying it's good to give all the earnings to the family, but a little contribution means a lot and makes you visible. Family is one precious group that no one should be separated from, except they don't exist in this life again.
After those words from her, I began to avoid her and didn't let her advice get into my head again.
Thank you for reading.