Hello guys, good day to you all and welcome to my blog..
i could remember a time in my life when I hated being around people. I don't know why but I found myself becoming an introvert. most times, I try to associate with people but it doesn't work, I just have to be in my room sleep,reading or going through social media.
one thing I noticed then is that not everybody thinks like I do,and my space was filled with weird people. some people find it difficult to stop gossiping about you, even those who know nothing about you. I believe that the life I was living then was the best. Back then I ask nobody for anything, I do my things on my own, make decisions by myself, if I fall I know it was my idea and if I succeed, it was also my idea..
But when growing up I realized I need company, no matter how I tried I still have to associate with people, at first it was hard for me because some people say I have low mentality and that really hurts because they don't know how I felt doing what was hard for me and also don't know how hard I was trying to cope with crowd. after that Incident, I selected people I talk with or associate with still I can stand certain people.
in my own understanding, one of the reasons why people don't associate with the public is because of the way people talk about them..
i know a group of people in my street that always participate in this kinds of acts, sometime when I encounter them, I just act as if I don't know them and continue on my way..
And also it's because of some bad people in the society, many people live with fear of people trying to harm them when they show there real selves in public because of their status and personality
While some people are born that way, they don't like opening up, they just live a free and simple life. it's very difficult for a community to meet the need of one or two people living in it. But if the community wants people to show themselves or even associate with people around, they must stop criticism,gossips(which is never possible),discrimination and start Sharing love to everybody equally not partially or favoritism,some people really needs it, I believe it can make people show their real selves or associate with the community..
Thank you all for reading...
