It has been quite some time since I last shared my thoughts on this platform. Life, with its many twists and unexpected turns, created a few interruptions along the way. However, I am truly grateful to be back again. I extend my warm greetings to everyone here, especially to the management, whose consistent effort has kept this space active, engaging, and worthwhile. It is not easy to sustain a community where ideas flow freely, yet this platform has remained a place where learning and sharing thrive.
Being part of this community has always been a rewarding experience for me. I have had the opportunity to share my ideas and, more importantly, to learn from the perspectives of others. It constantly reminds me of a simple truth: no one has a monopoly on knowledge. We all see things differently, interpret situations in unique ways, and contribute from the depth of our individual understanding.
One area I sometimes struggle with, however, is the concept of opinion—both mine and that of others. As human beings, we are created with unique features, different thought patterns, imaginations, and ways of interpreting life. This naturally leads to a variety of opinions. Even Scripture acknowledges that we see and understand things differently. What makes sense to one person may not fully align with another, and that is simply part of our human design.
Personally, I have always held a positive view of myself. I tend to believe strongly in my ideas and convictions, often seeing them as accurate and well-founded. Because of this, it can sometimes be difficult for me to identify my own weaknesses or consider opposing views with equal weight. I see myself through a lens of confidence and self-belief, which has helped me grow, but it also raises an important question about balance and self-awareness.
There are certain principles that guide me in my journey through life. One of the strongest among them is my belief in consistency. I do not take things lightly, and I try not to abandon a matter halfway. Once I commit to something, I pursue it with determination until I reach a meaningful conclusion. I also value growth, especially when it comes to working on areas of weakness that are brought to my attention. I may not always see those weaknesses immediately, but when they are identified, I make a conscious effort to improve.
Despite all this, I am aware that people’s opinions about me may differ—sometimes greatly—from how I see myself. At times, there is some alignment, but in other moments, the gap can be quite noticeable. This brings me to a question I continue to reflect on: do people truly see us the same way we see ourselves?
The honest answer is no, not always. People see us through the lens of their experiences, expectations, and interactions with us. Their perception is shaped by what we show, how we act, and even what we may not realize we are projecting. This does not necessarily make their opinion wrong, just as it does not automatically make our self-perception completely right.
I believe the key lies in balance. It is important to maintain a healthy sense of self-confidence and not lose sight of who we are. At the same time, we must remain open to feedback and willing to reflect on how others perceive us. Not every opinion should define us, but some may reveal truths we need for growth. Learning to listen without becoming defensive, and evaluating feedback without losing self-worth, is a powerful skill.
In the end, self-awareness is a journey, not a destination. We grow by holding onto our convictions while staying humble enough to learn from others. When we strike that balance, we become better versions of ourselves—grounded, confident, and continuously evolving.
Thanks so much for reading through and all comments appreciated.
