I learnt not early enough in life, that if you don't learn how to say "NO" to people that deserve it, you are in for a long ride. I learnt mine the hard way and it was not funny. People will take your good intentions for granted at your own expense, and they will still blame you again.
To survive, you need to learn how to say No to some people and be nice while saying it, you can say your response with yelling or causing another problem. Nobody likes no for an answer, nobody wants to be turned down.
Having said this, "please stop it" is a polite way to say NO. It is a firm response to caution someone doing something, maybe the wrong ting.
The truth is that these words need to be said to stop problem especially when it is the only obstacle the problem occuring, but I also want to encourage being polite in all of these.
You don't have to say NO or Stop it every time, only for the necessary situations.
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