Though, not having to force does not mean not having to work for it.
Love isn't a walk through a garden of roses. Love isn't a bed of petals.
Love is having to work through each other's imperfections.
Love is helping each other grow.
Love is patience.
Love is knowing that the other person is imperfect and yet staying together.
Love is not a piece of cake. It is hard work.
There is a difference between hard work and force. Learn to recognize that difference. <3