I was once having a conversation with someone, and I told him how difficult it can be to be a woman, especially when you think about something as simple as the menstrual cycle. He casually looked at me

I feel like one of the unfair things about life is that we can't read people's minds. Think about it. There are times when you're dealing with someone and you genuinely cannot tell whether they care about

I learnt very early in life that pleasing people is a very difficult task. The moment you start living your life based on other people's opinions, you unknowingly hand them the responsibility of determining

SOURCE When it comes to fashion, I'm a strong believer in the popular saying, "Dress the way you want to be addressed." To me, clothing is more than just fabric. It's one of the first things

What Makes a Responsible Woman? SOURCE We live in a generation where so many things seem to be going wrong every day. Because of that, discussions about responsibility have become increasingly sensitive,

When it comes to birthday celebrations, I'm that one person who would go all out to celebrate other people but somehow end up forgetting my own. I'm usually the friend who stays awake until 12 a.m. just

Sometimes, All You Need Is Someone Who Cares source When it comes to helping people during difficult times, I believe it can only be done by someone who genuinely cares. We live in a generation where everyone

SOURCE English Corporate Life Is Slowly Eating My Hobbies 😩 How come nobody talks enough about how difficult it is to balance corporate life and personal hobbies at the same time? Because honestly… I’m

Actually, if anyone calls themselves my close friend but cannot answer this question correctly, then believe me, I’d seriously question the genuineness of our friendship because the answer is so glaring

Online Scamming and My Survival Methods We live in an age where many people would do almost anything to get rich quickly, even when they are unwilling to get a proper job. Some don’t mind going as far

Am I Really an Introvert? Well... this question crossed my mind a few days ago while responding to a prompt on Ladies of Hive. And after thinking about it, my answer is simple: No, I am not an introvert.

Today is the 27th of May, a day that has always held a special place in my heart growing up because, over here in Nigeria, it is a day set aside to celebrate children, the Children’s Day. As a child, this

My Safe Haven Isn’t a Person, It’s Writing When it comes to having a safe haven, many people immediately think of a person, someone they can run to, talk to, cry with, or simply sit beside in silence.

Success, they say, will cost you friends. At first, that sounds scary. It makes success feel lonely, like something you gain while losing the people you once shared everything with. But as I grow and reflect

What if failure isn't your downfall but your foundation... When it comes to losing and winning, I’ve come to believe they complement each other — like two sides of the same coin. You can’t truly appreciate

I grew up hearing "You'd enter a man's house." No one ever said the man would also live in mine. I grew up in a society where many men still believe a woman should always be under them. A society

So, I was minding my own business, exploring Hive Keychain like I always do, when I stumbled upon a game called Holozing. And of course, being the naturally curious person that I am, I couldn’t just scroll

There was a time I dreaded work every morning. Now, I wake up thankful for the same job I once complained about. Here’s how i made that change. Before stepping into November, I took some time to reflect

The best gift you can ever give yourself as a lady is contentment. Yes, you heard me right — contentment! We live in a world that constantly tells us we’re not enough. Not pretty enough, not rich enough,

Grateful for the Girl I’ve Become When it comes to gratitude, it’s one of those feelings that can’t be forced. You can’t fake it, you can’t act it out — it just flows from somewhere deep inside. Gratitude