There are things in life that no-one wants to do and doing them alone is even worse. I am glad, I am here for my wife and that she is holding up amazingly well with what life has thrown at her on top of all the lives I have thrown in her. I know, I would be completely lost without her, so I do whatever, whenever she needs me often without her realizing I do. That is what our life is about.
We have had many ups and downs. That is a part of anyone's life but we choose to push through these challenges together and always come out of the other side stronger and wiser. We are partners in crime, life and parenting. We rarely agree on the minor things, I enjoy that, we always have something to bug the other one about. We have a lot of fun together by ourselves, together and with the kids. We have our lazy days where we want the other one to do everything while one of us just does nothing but that rarely happens in a house of our size.
Nothing in life has the power to destroy you. It is a long game for all of us, the best advice I can give anyone is marry for love and be honest if anything changes. We all grow differently as the year's pass, we experience the exact same event differently and everything changes.
Here are some video and still clips I threw together from our trip yesterday. Neither of us wanted to make this trip and neither did the baby but we did. It was painful, annoying and basically a shit thing to have to do all around for anyone. Together with our newest life in the family we pulled together and got phase one done. We will push through this like anything else we have faced in our lives. We have the best team to conquer our problems with, do you have yours?
Work on building one if you don't, they are an invaluable asset to have in life.
This video would have been very awkward to post on steemit if 
I still would have made it and shared it but now I get something extra to laugh about with her as we grow older together. That is the real key; learn to laugh at yourself, at each other and together..........no matter how hard life is or what get's thrown at you.
