The fact that this matter you reported appeared in the media and was publicly debated is not in itself something that the public can really judge. You weren't there in the case of the pregnant woman (I'm assuming that), I wasn't there. I cannot say anything about it and I will not presume to have an opinion.

Personally, I don't want to see my traumatic experiences judged by others who weren't there. I would hate for my personal story to be broadcast somewhere and for complete strangers to argue their heads off about it.

You can pave the world with negative examples and the more of them you spread, the greater the impression that you are surrounded by enemies.

In fact, I have no interest in following stories of transgressions, unforgiveness, etc., I would much rather you told me such episodes from your life where you handled a situation to your satisfaction, where you found yourself in accord with yourself and your fellow world. Where you found your humor and such. I am sure that there were.

It is all right if you do not wish to share such things with me, but it may also be all right if I say that I do not want to discuss negative examples with you where you ultimately only leave me the option of saying how terrible it all is, what you have heard from others and what you experience yourself. Would you give me the mandate to ask you questions about the good relationships and episodes of your existence without insisting on where things go wrong and are sad?

I indeed already told you that peer pressure shall not be underestimated, I understood you fully.