As humans, one way or another, we get paranoid even when we don't want to for many reasons. As an adult, I have learned to train myself to the point that even though I get annoyed coming out of it should not be a difficult thing to do because like it or not people annoying you is inevitable.
Fast-forward to the three things that annoys me, first is lies especially when it's coming from a guy who claims he loves me. Lying itself is a sting and it has a way of making one never to believe a person ever again and if we must learn to trust back it does take a while. Because of lies I have had to cut ways with one or two males because I don't get the chemistry at all rather it's proof that there would be problems between us in the future. I believe you should come out clean to me and if I would accept you then I would rather than cutting corners thinking I won't come to know about the truth even though it does take a while.
Secondly, I hate it when there is a slow Internet connection or when my phone is about to run down due to low percentage. Slow Internet connection can be so annoying for me especially when I am in the middle of something important In fact it can be so frustrating and draining repeating the same procedures over and over again. At that point it makes me feel like my phone has no use since I can't possibly use it to do what I want. Likewise when the battery percent is low. I feel like it is that period the battery is running low that I get important things to do or I might miss an opportunity so I never want to run low and to solve that problem I bought a power bank that has been my saving grace.
And the third thing that annoys me is being put on hold forever or getting ghosted. To me I see both as the same thing because if you are putting me on hold it means you don't want to speak to me likewise when you are ghosting me which means you don't want to see me nor talk to me. If you must ghost me it is better you come out clear to me so I don't continue disturbing myself and you than keeping silence especially when it's coming from someone that dares to me. It annoys me a lot because I hate to feel neglected. And I will even appreciate it the more if you inform me you don't like me around although it would hurt me but it's still betting than keeping me on hold forever or ghosting me. And so these are the three major things that can make me annoyed.
