My recent understanding on wisdom. Wisdom doesn't say yes all the time, even the ten virgins held back what they cherished and still didn't feel like they offended God and man. Their refusal to share their oil wasn't considered a sin by the bridegroom. To even think about it, They were quite familiar with one another because I believe that two or three person amongst the ten might have striked a conversation, maybe even about the bridegroom but while they observed and show love the wise virgins. DEFINED THE LIMITS. Matthew 8:9 says no indeed this highlighted their defiant stand. This doesn't stop us from being cheerful but the Truth is not all things or circumstances that you should condemn yourself for not sharing.
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