The subject of marriage is one of the things that I always attend to with all carefulness because it is a lifetime deal. A slight mistake at any point can lead to a lifetime regret.
It is no longer hidden how marriages are falling almost every day. People get married today, and the next week they are already talking of getting a divorce.
All these things get me wondering what exactly the problem is. I mean, these individuals said they loved each other, spent some time in courtship, and ended up informing their parents and loved ones about it, and they were joined together, so what went wrong?
Was it that they were carried by looks and other things that didn't matter, and it is backfiring? Well, I can't tell.
When it comes to marriage standards, like every other person, I also have my picks. Like I said earlier, marriage is a lifetime thing, and so, we ought to attend to it with all strictness, as our lives depend on it.
People select life partners considering different things; however, for me, the most important thing is compatibility.
Medically, spiritually, mentally, and physically. I believe that when we marry someone who matches us, there are a lot of dramas that we will save ourselves from, and understanding will flow naturally because we are almost the same.
I won't lie, I also believe in physical and inner beauty. The lady should have the looks and also have the character. One of them alone isn't balanced for me.
I love my woman being hard-working, yet she should also have time for herself and the family. I love working-class ladies, but their lives should not just revolve around work. This is why I don't like ladies who do any security job, like police or soldiers.
I also want a woman who can cook, and is God fearing and loves people, someone who is compassionate and can share with those who don't have, a lady who won't have a problem with me when I support others.
Being classy or not is not my problem, just be a wife, a friend, and a sister, and that is enough, be someone I can lean on and run to, whether I am happy or sad.
There are so many other things, but I think these ones are the ones I can disclose for now.