There is a powerful saying that my friend told me that if your identity is dependent on success, then all these failures will always break you.
But if your identity is defined by that you have to go, that means every failure is willing to teach you and is always there to teach you no matter what.
That is why if you chase goals and instead of failure, because you cannot escape failure, it is always there feeling will always come and go and nothing can hold you down so you must be willing to change that growth to continuous growth doing things that helps you to meet up in life that is how life has always been to change that growth and the life you always want.