People have judged me and related with me based on assumptions and what they hear from people who have also made conclusive assumptions. When (Mostly If) they understand a little better, they usually come and say I thought you were like so and so..
Me : I know..
Then they go: this is what everyone thinks and says about you, why don't u ever prove them wrong?
Me : Did I come into this world to explain myself to mere mortals?? 馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀
If you spend your days trying to change people's view about you or you're too concerned about "What people will say" you will end up living the lives and dreams of a thousand n one people.
You may make friends and think #They love u at that point, but what they love is simply a projection of their ideas; At that point, you simply cease to exist.