sometimes asking a question about what we want always makes the biggest changes in our lives. Most people are confused about all they want just because we don’t have a good “why” is our greatest hindrance. This happens to everybody when nothing gives us a reason to want something so bad or to need it that we make it our life mission. Our wants and needs are mostly chosen based on our career path, or the kinds of life we choose, and the kinds of environments we grew up in affect our wants and needs.
Our background makes all the difference
our background plays an important role in our decision-making because when we are young, it is easy for people to manipulate us to make us believe what they want us to believe and a perfect example is religion. people are into a certain religion not because they want to but because they grew up knowing the religion. 40% of people practicing certain religions don’t know so much about the religion. another thing we can talk about is poverty, why most people grow up to want money is they watch their parents live paycheck to paycheck and they understand their struggle just to put food on the table. 
most people who grew up with extreme poverty, also with a good mentality always choose money as their wants and their needs just because they understand perfectly well how difficult it is to struggle without money. Their ‘why’ is to avoid poverty. This is why our wants are different Some people want to be free from poverty, some people want their generation to be free from poverty, and some just want to be able to afford anything that they want without bordering anybody and everything is mostly influenced by background and environment.
What do you want
we have different wants and needs, our approach to life matter would be very different. Someone who is trying to be a multi-millionaire and someone who just wants to be comfortable approach will be different. when someone who trying to be a multi-millionaire is complaining about their growth, a guy who wants to be comfortable might be happy with the same growth just because the vision is different and what they want differs. the main reason it is like this is because they both have different wants but some of us don’t know what we want. We are only waiting for a miracle.
Nothing good happens by accident
apart from the fact that our want is different from each other and most times we end up getting what we want. Some people only believe in miracles and living life day by day without defining their wants, nothing good happens by chance we must position ourselves and also want the life we dream of. Most people only put effort into things that they truly want because if we truly want something we will position ourselves with our effort and not just believe it can happen by chance or by miracle.
Thanks for your time.
