The way of pain

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Silent rejection happens to people that we truly love, and we go silently just because we respect them or because we love them. People express great pain with silence because pain like this is always tough to express, most people just choose to keep quiet and live with it even though if we had opened up might have been handled better but because it is so painful and is coming from somebody that we love or respect, we hold it in, which can create further problems for us because what this does to us is that it kills us from the inside.

Everything in life has stages. Sometimes, the pain we are going through is a result of accepting the initial stages from someone, and it graduates into what we cannot handle. Most people accept simple pain simply because of love, respect, and sometimes because of fear, and what this does is that it graduates to another level, which often happens in relationships and It might be a lovers' or parental relationship where we don't choose rejection at the beginning and we choose to accept whatever is thrown at us out of love and understanding.

Tolerance is a poison that kills gradually and slowly

Sometimes, we hold on to the promises of change, we hold on to it because we don't want to lose the person who causes us pain, and this is one of the mistakes we make in life. We let our emotions decide our future. We let what we are feeling choose the end part for us because we already see from the beginning what might the relationship, and if they are the kind of person we stalk with for life, maybe like our parents, we permit them to change who we are. This results from letting our emotions decide, which, at the end of the day, only leads to rejection.

Some of us are forced to live in pain just because our survival depends on it. Some of us will live in pain because we want people to see us differently, and we want social acceptance. This can be very dangerous because it affects our mentality and kills our beliefs. It makes us forget who we are, and if we are not careful, we might lose our lives and lose what we stand for in the process. because pain has a way of changing people into what they are not even this change might come and we might not know it, but they are eating us from the inside.

Why can't we let it go

The question that is worth asking is, why can't we go? It is always easy to let go when it is physical pain, but when it's emotional pain. Even when we reject it by walking away, it always leaves its mark on us, which means after we have been done with the pain, the effect often stays with us for the rest of our lives. That is why pain is very dangerous. It is one of those things we shouldn't allow in our life. It is one thing we should not tolerate because it is powerful. It can overwhelm us. It can control us, change us, and even kill us.