Most of the decisions we are going to make in our lives are going to be influenced by the environment and sometimes some of these influences are not actually bad and a perfect example is when you see somebody around you doing something good. You try to copy it this one is the most common way our environment influences us. There are some things that people are doing around us that are good and we love them an example is business, We want to go into the first phase which is trying to know the business and how it works.
This first phase is finding something exciting and most people use this face to learn and get information. Some people get stuck not wanting to try what they have learned because they are scared. Some of them are waiting for a perfect time to do what they have learned so far, while some of them try to like do these things. Just like every other thing it doesn’t always work. You try and try and you seem to get no answer And this is where some people look for another thing that is exciting in their environment and go for it. They try something else and it’s not working, some people try multiple things and it doesn’t work so they move on to another thing, and this is how the cycle keeps on going.
Crazy
The craziest thing about this thing is that the more you keep trying the older you get because you’re not getting younger every day and when you keep trying your mind will start telling you that you are wasting your time that you’re getting old. This is where this fear starts to set in, why we can’t learn by trying, why people wait for their plan to be perfect before trying, and why people don’t want to waste their time on trying just because they believe that time is running out and they need to get the results very fast. What they do not understand is that the more you try and fail the more you learn and the more you learn, you keep getting better at that thing.
Some people will always be in that loop of finding something exciting and trying it when it doesn’t work they go for another thing again. It’s a loop and they will keep circling that same thing not until they stick with one thing, try it multiple times until they get it right that is when they can begin to see a real change in their life. This is when they experienced that success doesn’t just come by getting it right once, but comes by learning from your failures and doing something different when you want to try again.
The break
The loop is something that we must be very careful not to fall into. We must learn to stick with something even when it’s failing, we must learn to keep going and keep trying it, and apply the things we learn after we fail, Try again and keep going that way. That is the only way we can break the loop of being stagnant and that is the only way we can begin to see real changes and this is where most people don’t get to. We won’t be successful overnight and we don’t want to fail, most of the time it’s not your fault sometimes it’s because you’ve tried all those things and failed and the reason why they don't get the results from the things that they have tried before is that they fail to stick to it.
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