Depending on self is life changing

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one thing that dependency brings about is a comfort most people don't know how dangerous being too dependent can be just because they are very comfortable in the process and we are carried away without realizing that we are leaving another person's truth. imagine living completely on drugs to be productive it feels good and comfortable and there is always a security that comes with it that anytime the drug is available you will always be productive but are the absence of the drug you know that you are worthless and this is when it begins to occur to you that you are nothing without the drug and you will always be at its mercy which shows that you are living another person's life.

We have so many things that we can depend on, people, substances, vice, and so on, but as a human being, one of those things we can depend on seems much more dangerous is depending on human beings because this will not only affect us when they are absent, but even when they are present, it's still affecting us because dependent on another person simply means that they get to make your decisions for you, whether right or wrong. Whether you like it or not, you will always follow their advice. Which brings about you living in other people's reality and not your reality.

Being scared which comes from lack of decision making.

Sometimes, when we are living in another person's world, it doesn't always feel right, and we know just because we know that doing what they asked us to do is not what we feel like doing or what we should be doing but we are not sure about ourselves, and we have lived long enough not to be sure about ourselves, and depending on their advice and what they asked us to do, we lost our confidence over time. We get scared and question every decision we make by ourselves, and at the end of the day, we return to them for help and guidance.

When you are too dependent, it kills your ability to grow confidence and also grow depending on yourself, and this is because you've never done anything by yourself. It will be tough to make the decisions that will change your life in the long run. As a human being, we are always dependent on the things that have been working for us. We don't want to change too much on things that have been working for us, so that is why people always run back to those giving them advice, even when they don't fully understand what we are going through at the moment or situation might have changed since the last time they gave us advice because we are scared we can’t make important decisions by ourselves which kills confidence over time But don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad in seeking advice.

Depending on self opens doors

It is good always to remember that sometimes you need advice, you need to seek help, but at the end of the day, always choose what works best for you the most because you are the only person who understands your story more and apart from that when you always choose what works best for you, you will learn in the process of choosing it. The more you learn, the more you get better. When you fully depend on yourself, it brings about confidence, and it's too late to enlarge your understanding to make the right choices better in the future by depending on yourself.