Children are an important part of a family, since I consider that a couple without children does not form a family, but they are still a couple, and even if they are married, I consider that they do not represent a family, on the other hand, if there is a couple that is not married, but they have children, they do represent a family
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That is why when someone gets married in the family they consider that they are going to form a family, and if they say that it is because they consider that in the short or medium term after this union they are going to decide to have children, it is not a rule to have children, because if someone in the family decides not to have children, I am sure that it would be respected
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When I got married, the truth is that at that time I did not think directly about children, suddenly in my subconscious, by family tradition, it was that at some point children should come, but it was not in the first instance an obsessive idea, so having children did not represent for me a traumatic decision at the time of marriage.
For which she considered that after a few years of marriage, she decided that it was time for children to come, without much desperation for it, but when she decided, any time was going to be good for it, so I consider that it was not a difficult decision, but rather taken calmly, it is already going when the right time will be, not before, as it really happened.
That was something thought, without knowing what that entailed, because I was the youngest of my siblings, so it means that after me there were no more little ones, on the other hand, there were the children of brothers and sisters, but as I said I was the youngest, so little I get involved in that when the children are very small.
Nowadays, couples think much more about the convenience or not of having children, before it was not thought much about it, I think because it is becoming more difficult the situation for raising children, even many couples are discarded by only having one child, before the families were very large.
I thank God for the two children he gave me, and with that I am happy.
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