Este otro tipo de orgullo, es un tipo complejo y las personas que lo poseen son difíciles de tratar porque siempre creen que la palabra de ellos es la que vale, lo que el hace es lo que esta bien se debe halagar todo lo realizado por él o ella; pienso que no poseo ese tipo de orgullo, porque más bien considero que las personas que poseen este tipo de orgullo son unos enfermizos.
Este otro tipo de orgullo considero que, si existen una gran cantidad de personas con el, lo cual muchas veces resulta algo chocante e incomodo cuando sueles andar con una persona de este tipo, que uno sabe que le sobre sale este tipo de orgullo, más sin embargo en mi caso no le digo nada por respeto a la forma de ser de cada quién.
Me ha tocado coincidir muchas veces con este tipo de personas, porque si es el caso de una persona de estas que le toca tomar la palabra en una reunión de trabajo, siempre considera lo dicho por el cómo lo máximo expresado y siempre quiere que le des tu opinión, pero no acepta que le indiques algo que lo cuestiones, esa persona siempre está esperando que tu le digas solo palabras de alabanza para multiplicar su ego.
Conocí una persona con estas características, que lamentablemente le descubrieron una enfermedad degenerativa, que cuando fue quedando ciego, entonces trataba de hacerlo todo mediante llamadas o por correo, inclusivo tubo la audacia de solicitar un préstamo a la banca pública, para invertir en un proyecto que estaba tratando de montar, sin embargo, fue tanta su audacia que le dieron un primer crédito y lo invirtió en su tratamiento.
Y luego trato de conseguir un segundo crédito mucho mayor con la intención de con ello pagar el primero y supuestamente arrancar con el proyecto, lamentablemente su salud y sobre todo su visión cada vez era peor, el no aceptaba su incapacidad visual y se seguía manejando vía telefónicamente como si nada pasara, nunca decía a las personas lejos de su entorno el problema que estaba padeciendo.
Mi observación con respecto a esta persona es que no aceptaba el problema y era tanto su orgullo que se le preguntaba como iba con eso y siempre decía que era que la esposa exageraba con ello, pero cuando se le iba a visitar no se paraba de un sillón para evitar un tropiezo o que se le viera agarrándose de algo.
Igualmente, así tuve una compañera de trabajo, y además era del grupo que compartíamos cuando eran los juegos interinstitucionales, también los juegos dentro de la institución, pero siempre era eso, quería que lo que ella sugería fuese lo que se impusiera.
Por lo cual considero que cuando nos encontramos con personas de este tipo, lo más saludable para uno es apartarse de ellas, al menos que tengamos la suficiente confianza para darle a entender lo equivocado de su comportamiento, ya que no se puede actuar siempre de una manera en que crees que solo tu opinión es la más clara o acertada ante cualquier situación.
This other type of pride, is a complex type and people who have it are difficult to deal with because they always believe that their word is what counts, what he does is what is right, everything done by him or her should be praised; I think that I do not have this type of pride, because I consider that people who have this type of pride are sickly.
This other type of pride I consider that, if there are a lot of people with it, which is often something shocking and uncomfortable when you usually walk with a person of this type, you know that this type of pride comes out, but however in my case I do not say anything out of respect for the way of being of each one.
I have had to coincide many times with this type of person, because if it is the case of a person like this that has to take the floor in a work meeting, he always considers what he said as the most expressed and always wants you to give him your opinion, but does not accept that you indicate something that questions him, that person is always waiting for you to tell him only words of praise to multiply his ego.
I knew a person with these characteristics, who unfortunately was discovered a degenerative disease, when he was going blind, then he tried to do everything by phone or mail, even had the audacity to apply for a loan to the public bank, to invest in a project that was trying to mount, however, was so bold that they gave him a first credit and invested it in his treatment.
And then he tried to get a second much larger loan with the intention of paying the first one and supposedly start with the project, unfortunately his health and especially his vision was getting worse and worse, he did not accept his visual disability and continued to manage via telephone as if nothing happened, he never told people far from his environment the problem he was suffering.
My observation with respect to this person is that he did not accept the problem and his pride was so great that he was asked how he was doing with it and he always said that his wife was exaggerating about it, but when he went to visit him he would not get up from an armchair to avoid stumbling or being seen holding on to something.
Likewise, I had a coworker, and she was also in the group that we shared when there were inter-institutional games, also games within the institution, but it was always that, she wanted what she suggested to be what was imposed.
So I think that when we meet people of this type, the healthiest thing for one is to move away from them, unless we have enough confidence to give you to understand the wrongness of their behavior, because you can not always act in a way that you think that only your opinion is the clearest or correct in any situation.
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