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You can't stop it yourself except you communicate to her your dislike for not usimg condoms whenever having sex.
There is no relationship issue that cannot be settled with proper communication, however your approach to communicating the said issue to your spouse matters a lot.
I can't boast of my vast experience in relationship and sexual matters but I can say that I have had quite a few experience with ladies who love it raw without any form of protection and along the line I asked why because I prefer to use Condoms to prevent pregnancy since we ain't married yet and her response shocked me. She said whenever I use condoms, she doesn't enjoy the sex because it becomes extremely painful and moreover she enjoys it more without condoms and get to her climax.
If your girl as well feels the same way with what my fiance told me, then it's quite impossible to talk her out of it. However, there are other ways you can adopt to prevent unwanted pregnancies and that's for her to use birth control pills so you'd be both on a safe side.
But let me warn, communicating your concerns to your spouse can be either positive or disastrous and defeat it's purpose if you don't go about it the right way.
First of try to understand her reason by asking her questions pertaining to why she doesn't like using condoms and prefer flesh on flesh sex, then you can know what your next action would be.
Furthermore, try to communicate your thoughts and concerns to her in a Much more liberal manner for her to understand and not take offence or read meaning into your words. The emphasis is on the kind of words you use because she can probably link it to you not trusting her or she not trusting to be sleeping around or even have an STD.
I'm addition, do not try to control her or make a demand, but try to convince her and make her see reasons with you.
Finally, you've got to come to a compromise if she refuses tto see to your reasons, you've got to abide with what she wants and exploit other options. This shouldn't be a reason for a break up or misunderstanding. If anything it should bring you closer to her. I wish you best of luck in your relationship