Whenever i miss someone who i cannot ever see again especially my father who has departed this world for the world beyond, i try as much as possible not to think too deeply about it.
I take solace in my books, listen to music or go through the pictures of the person but not for too long so i that i won't be wallowing in emotional pains.
And whenever the feeling gets worse, what i do isos call my friends to hang out with them at least to get my mind of that thought. I go out and party with my friends or chill at the movies with the singular consolation that i cacan'tnt change what has happened and cannot see the person again so why bother pondering on something i have no power over.