Shame as we all know is that powerful feeling that clouds ones thought and make them feel defective, unacceptable and in turn makes them feel exposed even when no one is looking at them.
Shame has made many do awful things and it has also affected many in ways that would make them not discover their ability and potentials.
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Shame has made many do awful things and it has also affected many in ways that would make them not discover their ability and potentials.
People in the community and parents contribute mostly to the reason why people feel ashamed of themselves. This is because of the criticism received from them.
As a human, we should learn to deal with shame so that we won't get withdrawn from expressing our true potentials. Personally, I use to feel ashamed of myself not getting a job after passing out of the university.
This hit me so bad but I learned to deal with it. And now, I happily took up a minor job which makes me see life in a whole new perspective.
I learned to deal with shame by not giving a damn about what people say about me, not even words of my parents. The moment I discovered this, the better my life became. You too can do it.