Life is incomplete Without Children After Marriage.

I hope you all are well, I am also well. Today's topic is quite interesting and we see that if you don't have children after marriage, then a lot of problems start, especially if you are a girl, her life starts to get sad. It is also a fact that whatever children you have, God has given them and it can be late or early. We have also seen such cases in our lives who have had children after 15 years and then after that they have another child.

So here I have to say that now, the way it is in the first two years of marriage, then you are spending a good time in traveling and enjoying life. But after that, when you see other people's children, if your own children are not there due to any problem or even if there is no problem, then life becomes quite sad after that. So here I have to say that you should wait for the first four to five years and keep trying and also get treatment if you still can't have a child,

Then you should do this because life is incomplete without children. After not having children, people who are married make different decisions. Now, the way some people do, they adopt a child from their relatives, that is, siblings, and raise it all their life and raise it well. Their lack of a child is also fulfilled and the children they give them are also happy because their child is being raised well.

And some people wait, but I have to say here that one should not wait more than four or five years, otherwise the person starts suffering from depression and without a night, then the husband and wife also start fighting and their life, which was going well, starts going badly and everyone starts getting worried. Therefore, family members also have to make decisions on time.

We have seen with our own eyes that after not having children, the husband and wife fight so hard that the girl goes to her parents' house. And then after that, this story that I am telling you is from my family. For the first two years, there was no child and then the girl decided that she would go to her parents' house because there was a fight every day due to not having children.

There is nothing wrong with that. If we take someone's child and raise it, then people here try to take the child from their relatives and raise it. Otherwise, There are also some people who, after giving birth to children who are helpless and whose parents abandon them like that, people also adopt these children. Adopting these children is also a great reward. But here,

After a few years of adopting, when they have their own children, we have also seen that in our lives, the value of this child is lost and the value of the one who is our own child increases. This is the most wrong thing because the child who was given by the parents becomes very sad and starts worrying a lot. If the child is good and is raised well, then the parents who gave the child to other people would not be feeling any tension.

Here we have seen that a parent had adopted a child from their relatives, but after 10 years they had their own children. Today, the child is living in great distress because neither his real parents can go to them nor can those who adopted him get a good life. So, he is living in great distress at the moment.

If this is done to a child, it is a great sin and there will be problems in the next life as well. What I am saying here is that if there were no children, then it can be done in the way that is being done today, for the sake of the children, or a child can be taken from the other parents. Both of these methods are permissible for us in our Islam.

Therefore, methods have also been explained so that people can have children with their help and find peace in their lives, because there is a time when youth passes, children provide the most support, and raising good children is the responsibility of parents. When the children are good, then when the parents become old, So, she will serve them and appreciate them.

If the parents do not raise the children well, then here we have seen that one of the parents is our relative. They did not raise the children well and did not teach them. Today we have seen that they used to beat their parents and a few months ago their father had a heart attack and he left this world.

Due to these tensions, a few months ago we were watching and we came to know that this one boy had beaten his father because he was taking drugs and because he could not get drugs, he asked his father for money. The father did not give him, so he started beating his own father. When it happens that the father is beaten,

The father does not tolerate this at all and keeps things inside himself. And then the harm is that due to tension and depression, he starts getting beaten inside too. And then after that, it happens that he leaves this world. His father has left this world, but he is still there doing drugs. The habit of addiction that occurs does not end if it is started.

Therefore, try to raise your children well. If you have adopted a child, love him like a parent and try to educate him in a good place. When he is raised well, he will definitely become a good person. The happiest person for parents is That their child is studying in a good place and is being raised well, and that he will definitely become a good person in the future.