"Complaining is the absolute worst possible thing you could do for your health or your wealth. The worst! Why?
I am a big believer in the universal law that states, "What you focus on expands."When you are complaining, what are you focussing on, what's right with your life or what's wrong with it?"
-T Harv Eker-
I always have loved reading books. It takes me to different places, but for 5 years now I've been reading a lot of selfhelp books. But books that make me think differently, makes me use my brains. Books that inform me about life and teaches me to be a better person.
I am reading Secrets of the Millionaire Mind (T Harv Eker). At page 59 there is an assignment....don't complain for the next 7 days.
Not out loud and not in your head! And here at home we agreed if somebody complains then that person gets a slap on the butt.
It's also a nice way to start laughing and makes you aware of your thoughts.
Cause if you are focusing on what's wrong in your life obviously it will expand.
A little talk about the Law of Attraction is "like attracts like".
Have you ever noticed that complainers always have a tough life and it's always so difficult for them. They never have some luck and everything goes wrong.
If you keep focussing on the bad, hurtfull things that's the only thing that you will keep seeing. You also will only attract people who think and feel the same like you. So please do tell me how do you want to get out of this shitty life of yours???
I alsoused to be like this. It was never enough. Only bad things happend to me and I always met people who used me or said they where my friends ad it wasn't.
Cause when you are really in a bad place and life isn't that great and you need help...that's the moment when you realize and find out who your true friends are.
I am now at a point n my life that I stay away from complainers. I hav some allergy now from them haha.
I just don't want their negative energy around me and when people start to complain I give them advice how they cam fix their problems or let them see things from a different point of view.
But if they keep complaining and nagging.....I'out of there.
I take my distance and almost just run away.
And just take a look for yourself. The people who always complain they are always the victim. It's never their fault. They don't take responsability for their own actions.
So if you want to grow. If you want to appriciate the things that you have in life...start small.
Every day you write down 10 things that you are thankful for. It can me small things like a pen, your dress, your home, the people who truly love you.
But also feel the feeling of being thankful.
And just smile! Do more things that makes you laugh and gives you more joy in life!
And then write 10 thins that you are also thankful and grateful for befor you go to bed. Remind yourself od the lovely and beautiful things that are in your life before you go to bed. It will keep you in that positive momentum.
And also try it not complaining for 7 days....it's much more harder then you think! Please let me know how it went.
I am on my 5th day and already got some smack on my ass from my daughters, husband and even my co-workers hahahah.
Have a great day!!!
Big hug