It's been like close to 40 now. I have realized some really good things. I had so many ideas in mind and it's kind of my observation that most of the ideas that I had in the mind since childhood didn't went much ahead.
So what makes the ideas not survive the test of the time?
I wanted to create an animal shelter when I was in school. I realized that it would cost a lot to keep people. And getting funds for food, medicine and the treatment for the animals would cost me a bomb. And that is something I can't afford.
So one idea died because I hit it with reality. Like this you can hit your idea with reality. First thing it would be hitting is the money then man power and then maybe some other things. You don't keep your ideas in fantasy forever and instead give them reality.
Most of my dreams died because I had the parents who wanted me as a servant for the old age. Most of my dreams collapsed because my father wanted to spend his money on sisters and wanted to use me for the old age and he is successful so far.
So in short people at home, people outside home and people who are in the way of the dreams are there. And there is nothing you can do about it. You can either bypass them and move onto your dream. Or you find a way to succeed despite not able to reach the result.
Sometimes you realized things that you have some things better left to the luck. And some things you have to better leave to the god. And what happens then is the fate and the randomness. I had a lot of issues with the personal life so I leave most of those things to the randomness and the luck.
I think when we don't have the full control over the luck. Things just fall into the place often and we just happen to go along with the same. So we have to trust the process and let the randomness and the god work on the rest.
I think most of the good ideas die if they are not executed. Some of the results that we see are because of the people taking efforts. You don't move, the idea would die. You move and do something and then something is likely to happen.