When you meet someone who is willing to go the extra mile for you, a person who is after your happiness and wellbeing, an entity that is selfless with self-control and strong will, one who does not care what people say or do in order to protect your privacy and dignity, and your mind is at rest that this is a good person, a trusted and loyal being, and then all of a sudden such a person develops a new attitude, a nonchalant behaviour, and is unmindful of whatever becomes of you, especially in times you need them most, in my opinion, you need to let go of that relationship.
Once the rain falls and it starts beating you uncontrollably, what will you do? You hide under a cover, away from the stormy rain until it stops. In the same way, you have to deal with situations that stuck you by stepping aside from the rain of torments, pressure, and obsessions.
Some relationships are toxic in that if you don't end them in time, they might end you.
Two friends can start on good ground and along the line, one starts misbehaving, using the other to cover his or her mistakes, blaming the other for his or her shortcomings, giving unnecessary excuses, and always looking for trouble. Then you better let go. This can start from envy. When one is better off than the other, issues will begin to arise: grudges, aggressiveness, anger, and so forth will emerge from a low self-esteem personality who once claimed to be a trustworthy person.
Although it's not bad if we fight harder to win back our most important relationships, when it is unresolved for too long or has no reasonable outcomes, then it's better to let it go than to allow the matter to suffocate you.
Losing some people can be a blessing in disguise. It gives one the boldness to start over, build new strengths, and plan for a better future.
