Emotions are powerful expressions of accumulated thoughts and expectations. One o such expressions is a deep feeling made from choice called LOVE.
Love is a binding force. Its a unifying element. Love is a personality. Its the key to secret doors of the heart.
The issue o having "a crush" has taken over the hearts and lives of so many such that many are imprisoned by their feelings for someone who might not even know they exist.
Usually, "a crush" is someone you have feelings for who necessarily doesn't know of such feelings or might not even know you.
Many have crush for celebrities, people they just crosspath with, persons who affected their lives one way but most importantly, someone who seems to have all the qualities or major qualities they desire in a life partner. The sad part is, many never express these feelings to their so called "crush".
It's okay to have feelings, but it's painful when you can't express them. It even hurts more when you express your feeling of love and the other person doesn't love you back.
I listened to a lady as she poured out her heart of pain from crushing over someone who obviously has no feelings for her. Her pains led her return to alcohol. In her words " its a feeling of desire and hatred". She wants him yet regrets her feelings because she knows she can't have him.
I doubt if there is anything positive about having a crush. It ends up leaving you in a mess. I now understand how important it is to diligently guard the heart.
True and genuine love is not impossible. It is possible and should be allowed. Its fulfilment and reward is in a process of time.
Rather than crushing over someone who gives you pain, love that person that loves you. Never let them go. Its true that we don't know the value of what we have until we lose it.
Never ignore those who give you their time. Stop fantasizing on what you can't obtain. When you ignore those who give you their most treasured value "time", they leave you to seek for another.
