Hello all you awesome Steemians! Today, April 18th, is national send nudes day. Today is a great day to show off your naughty bits to someone you love. Now, some of you are probably wondering why I'm sharing this, but there's actually a really good reason behind it. Ladies, sending nudes to your loved one will lead to better sex. Hear me out:
On a physiological level, men and women are wired completely differently when it comes to arousal. Arousal, in my opinion, is just as important as foreplay when it comes to sex. Arousal "pregames" the erogenous zones in your body, leaving you more susceptible to feelings of pleasure and lusty fun times. Everyone experiences arousal differently, but, in a general sense, women are aroused by thoughts whereas men are aroused by sight/visual stimuli.
What does this mean? If I wanted to get my lady all hot and bothered, I would talk dirty to her before I even touch her. I'll get inside her head, get her thinking about the lewd things about to happen, and then actually do them. This arousal makes my job of pleasing my lady easier.
For a lot of guys, arousal works in the same way. We just use different inputs. Sure, thoughts can work, dirty talk can work, but visual stimuli (nudes, strip teases, etc) work far better. To that end, a pic sent to a lover can help them pregame before he's with you, making his arousal all the more powerful when you finally touch him. An aroused man is a passionate man, and one that will leave you feeling great, too!
Obviously, this really only applies to someone you're in a relationship with. Sharing nudes to strangers that don't ask or don't want nudes is illegal in most countries. It comes with a visit from the police, your name on a sex offender registry, and a miserable life ahead of you. This effect is compounded if you're under 18. Not only do you get all of the above, but now you have a production of CP charge added! That's the sort of thing that will ruin your life with no chance to change it. So be careful out there! I want you having fun, not being miserable.
So today, send a nude to someone you love. Make their day better! You can do it!
