Love is a beautiful thing and undoubtedly, something everyone craves for. Why do you think a lot of movies, books and hit songs are about love? That's because love is as powerful as anything you can ever imagine. It always has a way of getting to us no matter how tough we think we are.
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I really don't think there is anyone who would say he or she hasn't been in love in one way or the other. Everyone has tasted the sweet and bitter part of love. Did I just say everyone? I guess not everyone has tasted the bitter part of love since they've never known anything called heartbreak. I have had been in love several times and I have unfortunately, had my own bitter part of love.
But even at that, I still find myself loving without guarding my heart and lesson from the past. I guess that's because I'm so emotional when it comes to love. I think anyone who calls me a lover boy will absolutely be right. To be honest, I don't just know why but I tend to always love with all my heart and this has in so many ways affected me emotionally since I always end up getting hurt.
Recently, I've been thinking a lot about these bitter-sweet called love, and the only thing voice that keeps ringing in my ear is the voice that keeps telling me to block my heart from falling in love and having feelings for anyone. But is that really going to be possible?
I just wish there is a way I can do this since I'm just so tired of getting hurt. I've asked myself too many times why I keep falling in love with the persons that won't love me in return and ends up hurting me, sadly, I'm yet to get a perfect answer to this question. Should I say its my fate?
Let's go back to the topic of discussion since I really don't want to bore you all with my emotional problems. The question before me is this; What can I do and can't do for love?
I have thought about this severally since I saw this question and seriously, is there something I can't do for love? What I mean here is that I have always sacrificed a lot for love and I guess that's why I always end up getting hurt badly. Remember I told you all that I'm a lover boy. I always allow my emotions to crowd my judgement and I do things without realising it until when it bounces back at me. But for the sake of this question, I will sincerely tell us what I can and can't do for love.
I can deny myself of things even go hungry just to make sure she has something to eat. I can deny myself of my beautiful sleep, just to make sure she has a sound sleep. I can inconvenience myself to make her comfortable and can displease myself to please her.
I can do mad stuffs and be a bad boy for the one I love. Hope you ain't expecting me to tell you how I can be a bad boy? Please just forget it because you ain't getting that from me but seriously, I can be a bad boy when it comes to satisfying the one I love.
I hate doing laundry but when it comes to the one I love, I don't mind washing her under wears, just I don't mind cooking for her and also going on an errand for her if that will make her happy.
As funny as this can be, it's actually the reality. I can never kill anyone or put myself in harm way just for love. Killing for love will get me in trouble and we all know that if I eventually end up dieing for love, my love will end up getting another love. I don't know if you understand what I'm talking about but that's just the bitter truth. I won't advice anyone to kill or die for love and when the situation presents itself, please flee.
Loving God should come first in our life before love for humans. If any woman decides to make me compromise my faith in God just because she knows I love her so much, then sadly, she isn't meant for me.
But really, who does this? Why would you sacrifice your goals and aspirations just because you want to please the one you love. Have you heard the saying that no one knows tomorrow? What if anything happens tomorrow and the love goes sour, don't that mean you've lost everything? We should be very careful when it comes to this though.
I have seen and heard stories of people who run away from home to be with the one they love. Most times, I wonder what actually prompted them them take such foolish decision. I call it foolish because it sounds so stupid to me anytime I hear things like this.
But how can you forget everything your parents sacrificed for you to make sure you are who you are today just because of a girl or boy that might end up hurting you? Even though your parents are against the relationship, trust me, there is always a way to go about it, running away shouldn't be the last resort.
Please don't get me wrong, love is very sweet especially when you are with the right person. However, here is a little piece of advice; don't ever allow yourself to fall deeply in love that you'll end up doing something you will regret or getting badly hurt. Love has a way of messing up badly with our minds and emotions, he very careful.
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