I have never been in this situation before. I don’t know what to say. To be honest, I don’t even know how to describe it! I am outraged, disappointed, emotional, frustrated, and offended; my feelings are bleeding so bad I don’t even have any clue what my actions are! Believe me, many, many more are happening on my mind. I just lack being a decent communicator. A lot of ingredients of my emotions are developing havoc inside me. Therefore, this post might not turn out delicious as you anticipated.
Should I say apologies in advance! But why! Why the heck do you even have expectations from me? Seriously bro! Why? You don’t even know me!
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There is an essential component of learning that we can’t afford to miss out on. It is the magic you deserve. This is the secret to obtaining serenity. You can’t control others’ behavior, yeah? But there is one particular element in your hand. And that’s more than enough, my new friend. You also seem to have it; I also have it; even God himself bears this. We only need to master how, when, where, and which quantity of it we should waste on all those around us. I am talking about expectations. The lesser you carry, the happier you get. I know you have so many questions. If someone like me oftentimes can overlook this and goes through a lot of emotional trauma, then how to cope with it.
Just for a moment, forget about them. Give yourself a breather. Is it too much to do! If you fail to do so, then make yourself distracted by something else. It will help you heal. Why believe me? Sooner or later, you will be in my position for sure at least once in your life. That day my friend simply try to recall what I had advised. Try it for yourself. Then you will know.
Let me tell you the beauty of it. I am already starting to feel better. For a moment, I disobeyed this learning. But as soon as I came back to the track, it began to show its magic. That’s why you should also try this. Believe me; you can’t even imagine how great this works until you actually taste it yourself.
Just remember one thing no one can escape selfishness. Everyone is bound by it. For you, it may be less, and for someone, it may be more. It comes to everyone in different terms confined by distinct conditions. Being selfish isn’t awful. But you have to understand its limit for the better good of humanity in you, me, and all. But everyone will not adopt this. So, it’s you who need to be mindful of your expectations from others. Stop daydreaming. Ok, I am being modest! It’s more like we idiots are being more stupid. Told yaa! I am a pretty lousy writer. Forget it. It’s not about you or me. It’s about the expectations we cultivate. In simple terms, you should resist expectations from the selfish people of this universe where every individual has their own world, constantly being hampered by the people who have forgotten all the limits of being selfish.
I hope we have connected to a level that can be referred to as understanding among us. You are wise enough to make the appropriate decision for yourself. But always remember the limit of selfishness.
Wishing you massive relief from the unnecessary mental agony you bring upon yourself unwillingly all by your actions.
Adiós.
