No one talks about the pain heartbreak brings. The unexplainable feeling in your chest that won't go away. The tears that refuse to fall or eventually fall , the memories of how it all started, thoughts playing in your head , let's not forget a particular song that can be a trigger to your pain reminding you of what you held for that person.
It's more painful if you were the one giving energy most of the time..... you think about the efforts,what you must have done wrong, what you could have done to change the narrative but the heartbreak is there right in your face,the echoes of it's over,the sting from that text message or even the absence of the person till the message was passed across,he or she was no longer interested.
The best thing to do is decide to let them go. Process the healing, focus the energy on yourself, do the things you love, shine the way you were before they stepped into your life. Yes, it can be easy to see all these as something to bypass with ease.
Not a lot of people like to talk about the relentless intrusive thoughts that constantly creeps in like a ghost from the past clawing its path to the surface of your heart .No one talks about you constantly questioning your worth because you feel you must have messed up. No one talks about constantly recalling the things you’ve said and done, and how you visualize how you could have avoided everything so the relationship could last but what has happened has happened
Love is a beautiful thing regardless
Here's what to do pick up your pieces it's not the end of the world, don't settle for less because you're lonely you should know how much your energy is worth it's better to remain single than to present your heart on a golden platter to someone who will not value you.
Make sure you heal before getting into a relationship with someone else, you'll definitely find love again, it's okay to cry and reminuce on the memories but don't dwell on them, hard as it sounds, consciously move on.
It's not the end of the world like i wrote earlier,it's just one of the things that happens in life and you'd have to deal with.
To avoid heartbreaks ,define relationships,set boundaries,watch out for red flags before committing or going deep into any relationship.
Have an amazing week.