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One thing you have to understand is that disappointment over love affairs generally has the effect of driving men to drink.
And women too. And this is because most people never lean out of transmuting their strongest emotions into dreams of constructing nature.
A little heartbreak shakes them, a little disappointment, a little neglecting makes them to question their self-worth or even ask yourself if they are truly worth it, ever.
But that is not the main goal.
The main goal is that they really understand what is actually coming to them and how they can align everything to what works for them only. I would say this is just an example of being selfish in a relationship and no one is ready to explain or understand.