You know this one situation I found myself in a long time ago really affected my life pretty badly but I just thought it was us just being childish then and that childishness caused me more than I thought. I can't really say for them if they feel hurt the same way I was, I hope one day if possible we all meet at a particular scene so I in person can remind them of how childish we were and actually laugh at it and make jest of ourselves, here is actually what happened.
It was actually around the time I was in junior secondary and obviously, most of my mates found themselves having relationships already maybe they were influenced by their older brother and sisters, I can't really say why they started stuff like that so early and the funny things is it wasn't a secret in my neighbourhood then and I wonder how their parent might have reacted to it but one thing I'm sure of is hadn't been I was also having one then my mom would have to drag my ass down to that girl house and tell her mom about it in a really disgraceful way actually, maybe the thought of this is why I couldn't have one then or the fact that I felt it was irresponsible of me at that particular age.
It actually happened at a birthday party whereby while I was assisting with the sharing of snacks and drinks, my friends ate my snacks and a female friend who was one of my friend's girlfriend offered to share hers but only for her to say " I must feed you which to me was actually normal but my friends saw it differently and starting talking about something else at my back and no one could confront me about it, the following day which happens to be Sunday was normal and nothing happened or should I say I didn't notice anything because Sunday was always cool.
When it was Monday after school hours, I got home, saw a friend of mine from afar and tried to say hi to him but he ignored me, I thought at first he didn't hear but I did again and he look my side but didn't greet back and I notice not just him but all of them stop greeting me, I was wondering what was up but I was also determined not to ask and this went on for days, I was kind of worried so I had to ask one of my female friends that what's going and she explained that, the boyfriend of the girl who fed me at the party said I want to snatch his girl and that got me really pissed because this girl in person was nowhere near the type of girl I would want to snatch actually.
This went on for years and it turned me Into an Introvert and that was how I stopped making friends, growing up I thought it was bad but finally I realise that you don't need too much of people to be called friends or friends, you just need one person and also never get close to anyone I know girlfriend to avoid wrong accusation. The most amazing thing is the girl later dumped him months after for another guy.
Hope you enjoyed reading something this childish? Love you always