From Great Love to Break Up

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Have you ever prayed for you to meet the person you are destined to be with?

Have you ever loved someone that you better live without air but not without his existence?

Have you ever thought that the love you shared is that great that it can conquer everything and anything from the furthest distance to the strongest beast?

Have you ever thought that you will be able to fully trust someone, and be able to give your undivided attention?

5 Secrets to a Successful Long-Term Relationship or Marriage

by John M. Grohol, Psy.D.

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1. Compromise
2. Communicate
3. Choose Your Battles Carefully 4. Don’t Hide Your Needs 5. Don’t underestimate the importance of trust and honesty

There have been a thousand or more articles written about how to have a successful long-term relationship or marriage, but none that seem to capture some of the core ingredients I’ve found important in relationships. So here’s the straight dope, from my experience.

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I guess it’s true that nothing last forever.

With time feelings change, situations change, thoughts change.

Sometimes it can also be that love is great that you have to sacrifice and let go.

Sometimes they even blame it to the “spark”.

Let me get this clear. The spark that they are missing is not love.

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Because for me, you never stop loving anybody, if it is the case, then it was never love.

In the absence of love, relationships are like a business deal,

If what bonds you becomes weak and your partner is not towards the same goal.

The deal breaks.

Mind you, love is very important but it’s not enough. There is no secret. The only thing that matters is to never give up! Both individuals should be willing to make it work. One can’t stop trying. As the saying goes "IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO".