Some people wanna see you hurt, some just wanna see you destroyed. People always wanna tell you what to do but deep down inside you only make your own choice.
Life is about living but it's the way you do it. You tell your problem to the people you've trust but deep down inside you gotta follow your heart and mind. People will always give their advice or they tell you what you should do but it's up to you, if you follow their advices or not. Because you know your life better than theirs.
Yes, life is a lesson learn and we go threw a lot but sometimes is good to take advices from others, because it might fixed something in your life that have been killing you or confused you.
In life, we live by choices and mistakes, and it takes a minute to realize that no matter what you do, we live by choice and that's why you always have to ask yourself if you are willing to takes those advices and make a change in your life and relive it all over again in the right way.
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