I think that marriage could be a wonderful thing if done with the right person. I think that choosing the one that you'll be spending your life with is one big decision that can influence you on so many leves. It should not be taken lightly or done for the wrong reasons. Thinking about this I felt inspired to write an article about it on my blog
I think that marriage is a chair where both people can sit on during distress. Not with one throwing the other and saving themselves in tough conditions. If you think of marriage like an endurance test, I believe that it's even more important to think if you want to share a chair with that someone during highs and especially lows.
What would be the secret of a happy marriage? I would love to know answers from genuinely happy married people. Yeah, the ones that still like each other and are not together for the mortgage, credits, kids, or just because divorce looks bad in your 60's.
I think that just because we have no clue of how much time we are left each day living on Earth it is absolutely important to spend it with someone who adores/respects/appreciates you so much even when it's all bad.
Have a great day and toodle loo!