It seems that we currently live within a paradox and we do not have to look that far to realize that many of the things that we spend time on or are in our close environment revolve around approval. Even acquiring a product in something had to have influenced you to make that decision and everything is based on approval since it can and an acquaintance or close people and had to have commented something about what you now have at home.
How there are thousands of examples But of all of them I want to focus only on a few that may be of help to you if we can define them correctly. Thanks to the digitization in which we are immersed, it has become more and more necessary for many people to feel approval, let's put some examples And in this case we will take a social network of the web 2.0 but in order not to advertise it we will use terms to define each one of them.
This that was born or rather was acquired some time ago by the largest social network known today in which it is based on uploading photos and this was the beginning and with the passage of time It was only copying what others did better of course it is necessary give credit that first they tried to buy from that type of company and then if you are, they did not give in simply copied in the product and using the large number of users that it currently has, suffocating who refused to give in to them point nothing different than what It happened in ancient times if we go back to the time of the empires, be it the Medo Persian or the Roman to name a few.
It is incredible to see the unbridled race to get a heart and in this way satisfy is insatiable hunger. Why do you think that the number of these, sometimes does not matter? The costs or what they imply only matters to achieve the goal. Since mathematicians entered the world of social networks, we have become only numbers, it does not matter what is influenced either positively or negatively in your system.
If you continue in that constant bubble in which the more acceptance it has, the more it inflates, remember that at some point it will burst and the noise and the fall will be just as great. You are the one who decides and has all the power to turn around and not be a victim of this vicious circle, I will quote you a saying that you may have already heard and that is that "from love to hate there is only one step" They are responsible for injecting flattery or approval, they just look for a specific interest or something in you and then leave.
This is what sociologists call the growing demand for acceptance when we upload content to social networks. And it is that obtaining a heart or a like, scientists say that it releases dopamine and this is where the new traffickers who feed this sensation come in. Because if you don't know it yet, there is a large market that is dedicated to exchanging acceptance for money. If everything you have read so far seems exaggerated, then simply corroborate the information, in itself you will find much more and that will make your Vision broader.
Currently there are other much more addictive social networks with Artificial Intelligence engines designed to recognize your likes and dislikes, it also recognizes when it is the most appropriate to show your products. have so many points of recognition from their users which nations which at present are considered communist or dictatorial when compared with these companies are left in diapers and nobody seems to care about the seriousness of the matter.
and much less what do you invest your time in, what I can assure you is that web 2.0 is taking dying steps, which would make me as a user think if they are worth the time I am investing. The web 3.0 has already arrived and in case you don't know it, it is here to stay, it is currently within it if you are reading here and in case you have not yet realized it, it comes with the force of a locomotive which has no intention of stopping So the first That they get on the train, it is very possible that the future will be promising and full of freedom. Contrary to those who just stare and think that everything will continue as it is.
All this voracious appetite for approval can be summed up in just three words FEAR OF REJECTION, in itself fear has never been good because of fear we can miss great opportunities because of fear you may no longer have the love of your life, because of fear you may have lost something really valuable and much more important than a material good, out of fear Maybe you have a long list of mistakes made, then what is the point of living or being afraid better suppress this feeling in your life once and for all and activate that epic character chip legendary which fear is never an option.
Terrifying to see how the custom that in the past made the foundations of a society more solid were lost. Now we spend much more time behind a screen and at all costs we steal time which we can dedicate to our family, children or some friends to satisfy our appetite to be connected. And if it were useful to be connected, but not really since we only navigate senseless in the sea of the internet aimlessly adrift.
It is never too late to start, everything has a solution and the only thing that has no solution is the death of the rest. We can always find a path that can lead to where we want to go. It's been like this since the world began. Or do you think that everything you can see around you was formed overnight. It is a path to learning linked with trial and error, surely in many moments fear was present but it was never something that prevented the achievement of the goal of each of the people who managed to create what your eyes see now. It is time for you to make connections express common interests The future is promising but nothing will come to your fingertips with just making a wish, you must go for it and the time is now.
You do not need anyone's approval. Just believe in yourself and what you are capable of doing like this. All this against shows that you are made and Welcome to the group.
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