The main most expensive addiction is not smoking drugs or gambling the most expensive addiction is approval because people are details approval but how do you ever commit addiction.
When you buy a specific thing you don't have to showcase it or post it don't announce it or go on the holidays don't push it because of privacy teaches you how to be genuine with yourself.
You begin to focus on the most important thing other than good public so much that you stop caring less about what other people think about you that is how life is living life at your own pace and not trying to please anyone around you.
The focus is to become more on you and what you have in your life and at the end of the day become part of yourself because you're living life according to the mood of others that don't even care about you at last.