Stand by life and don't ever live up to other people's expectations because they themselves will not ever live to satisfy your own expectations.
If you're not living your life for yourself, who is going to live their lives for you?
These people will be disappointed in you. They do not appoint you.
They have no right to be disappointed in you.
As long as the person is not God, you have free permission to disappoint others and appoint yourself.
The main thing is to focus on your purpose, focus on your life, focus on your interest, focus on your career, focus on what puts fruits on your table, not standing about who cares or not. because those people still want you to serve their own purpose so why will you serve the purpose of others when you haven't served yours that's our life as a lesbian serve your own purpose and let others serve their own purpose by themselves.