My quiet time with Him wasn't so pleasant. Ill be brief!
It was really a time we got into several debates. I had always taken pride having been raised by a Queen. In fact I believed I would make the best of husbands but He disagreed. Like seriously! He said to me I completely disagree. He gave me room to explain myself. I told Him of how well I would love and respect Her, Support and encourage Her..etc I even made reference to my promise to wait for her and then He asked, After wedding night what next?
After fulfilling the vows for one week, what next? After being the best husband for 1 month, What next? You are an adventurous man, After 1 year, You can't Change her like you would change Jobs, what next? Note you won't cope with her, You will live with her and don't be in a hurry, You both are not dieing anytime soon.
As if that wasn't enough, He said to me, True you don't raise your voice on women! True you wont lay your hands on them! But what of when you ignore them? Like seriously, Lets not go there I said! No lets go He jumped in. When you are unhappy what do you do? When She gets you unhappy what Do you? Pray?Am sure you know thats hypocrisy? Do you address it or push it in? Do you tell her she's wrong or you say its okay? Do you Address it or heap it up awaiting break up? She will change when you address it, but ignoring her won't help. It's Better you raise your voice and address it than Being so religious keeping 'Holy Malice'. When I get unhappy with you, I rebuke you. It's because I love you. She will understand submission when you have learnt to Handle your emotional business.
I know you will love her but it will have nothing to do with feelings. Had I followed my feelings I would have ended my journey at the garden of gethsamene. Feelings can mislead.
Finally as a people person, Let her Get to know You Better than the world. Don't get unnecessarily upset because she tries to know so much about you. There's a reason Eve was extracted from the ribs. She is to be a part of you that the world wouldn't know until its time.
You have learnt to forgive
You have learnt to Move on
Now learn to Open up for deep conversations with the right people are often priceless.
